After working at a top New York law firm for many years, I finally decided to reach for the holy grail of law firm associates everywhere - a job in the in house legal department of a company (in my case, a financial services firm). It took a lot of soul-searching on my part, and I didn't make the jump until I was absolutely sure that that was the direction where I wanted to take my career.
I seriously considered a number of offers, and a few months ago, chose the one that I felt had the best combination of substance of work, career advancement opportunities and - last but definitely not least - a nice culture.
Boy, was I ever wrong.
But sometimes karma works in wonderful ways. I was having a particularly difficult day one Monday a few weeks ago when Lauren (my friend who rescued me from the effects of Hurricane Sandy and for whom I made The Jar of Southern Boiled Peanuts card) texted me to commission a card from me!!!
My very first commission! Lauren told me she was going to a wedding in a couple of weeks, and she hoped that I could make a card for her to give to the bride and groom. Of course I was ecstatic to do it!
I spent days doodling and sketching designs on scraps of paper, and came up with the below idea. How do you like it? : )
I'll let you in on a little secret: I used to tie my bows with nothing but my fingers (sometimes with help from my feet - really!), but I found that it took me half an hour and plenty of wasted ribbon to get one bow that was a keeper. Also, I couldn't tie tiny ones, as dexterous as I like to think of my dainty little digits.
So I bought the below nifty gadget:
It's deceptively simple - just a piece of plastic with funny cutouts - but the Bow-Easy makes tying bows fail proof. Learning how to use the Bow-Easy is a little difficult at first, but once you get the hang of it, you will spend your days trying to incorporate bows into your creations. I'll make a video tutorial soon to show you how!
See? The bow comes out beautifully every single time, without any trouble at all.
A final - wholly gratuitous - picture of the card, since I like it so much.
Lauren's opportune request turned my frustrating day around. I had been feeling stressed to the max with the work situation, but Lauren's request gave me hope and reminded me that I am much more than my job. At the very least, I almost never work past 6:30 p.m. now, and I have all the time in the world to pursue my (numerous) interests.
As long as I can contain my stresses to the workday and let it all go at 6:30, I will be fine. My evenings and weekends are, at long last, my own. I'm hoping to be able to make Christmas cards for everyone this year!
Sorry to hear that the new job isn't all it's cracked up to be, but I like your spirit. You are, indeed, so much more than your job!
ReplyDeleteLove the card and the nifty bow. Can't wait for your video tutorial!